Pastoral Fellowship

by Joe Thorn on October 6, 2006

After a few attempts Steve and I were finally able to meet up with two other local pastors. Jamie is a new church planter and Scott pastors a larger, established church. Between the four of us two denominations and three associations were represented. We talked about our theological backgrounds and development, our church struggles and hopes, preaching, and the importance of this kind of pastoral fellowship. We plan on meeting once a month for mutual encouragement and have already set the next gathering on the calendar. We hope to find even more like-minded, Gospel-centered, missionally oriented guys to meet with.

Let me encourage other pastors, if you do not already have this kind of fellowship, seek relationships like this out. Look within and outside your denomination, talk with other pastors and church leaders in your city/region, and when you find men that share your heart make time to meet. In our case, since we are all in different situations and have unique backgrounds we are ready to learn from each other. Who knows what kind of network or partnerships will emerge out of this, but at the very least our friendship in the Gospel is another example of God’s grace to undeserving sinner/saint/pastors.

  • http://aubuchon.wordpress.com Bob

    Such gatherings can prove refreshing as well as rewarding to our faith. Before coming to my current obode of pastoral duties I too was a part of a such a gathering of about 6 pastors. Though we held different theological thoughts, we were always able to abide together in our likeness and common ground in Christ. You have spurred to me to get out again and find those to meet with. Peace & Glorify!

  • http://gunny93.blogspot.com/ Gunny Hartman

    Amen, Joe.

    We started up the Lone Star Founders Fraternal for likeminded Southern Baptist pastors & theology students. It’s been years of my ministerial life that I’ve been hungering for such and I’m really excited about where this could go.

    http://gunny93.blogspot.com/2006/05/lone-star-founders-fraternal.html

    If you don’t have a group like Joe spoke of … help start one!

  • http://www.shadowcrosschurch.com Jamie Page

    Joe:

    I had a great time meeting with you, Steve, and Scott. I’m hopeful that something awesome will come out of our meetings and fellowship and our growing relationships.

    I wish I had a group of guys like this years ago… Better late than never!

    Blessings!

  • http://kennicon.squarespace.com Nick Kennicott

    Joe: I’m involved in 3 such groups, all with a different group of individuals. One is local Southern Baptist pastors (within our association), one is a group of pastors from all local protestant churches (to include 2 women), and one is a group of about 6 missional minded guys. Each is profitable in different ways — it’s interesting to see how the conversations and topics change from group to group. This has been an important form of encouragement for me and I would suggest any pastor to be involved in this type of group.

  • Scott Eaton

    Believe me, this is a good idea. I was there! I had a great time meeting you guys and really look forward to more fellowship and growing friendships.

    Pastors and church planters really do need each other. Denominations really don’t matter much anymore. I think gatherings (formal or informal) of likeminded pastors and leaders is where its at. Ministry is hard and it is helpful to have friends who are also in the ministry to share it with.

    Thanks again guys.

  • http://gunny93.blogspot.com/ Gunny Hartman

    “Denominations really don’t matter much anymore. I think gatherings (formal or informal) of likeminded pastors and leaders is where its at.”

    Scott,

    I found your two statements interesting and borderline ironic, at least to me.

    One would think that denominations would contain “likeminded pastors and leaders,” but that is far too often not the case.

  • http://www.rvanneste.blogspot.com Ray Van Neste

    Great post Joe! It reminded me of the following from The memoir and Remains of Robert Murray mcCheyne:

    ‘Occasionally two or three of us, whose lot was cast within convenient distance, and whose souls panted for the same water-brooks, used to meet together to spend a whole day in confession of ministerial and personal sins, with prayer for grace, guiding ourselves by the reading of the word. At such times we used to meet in the evening with the flock of the pastor in whose house the meeting had been held through the day, and there unitedly pray for the Holy Spirit being poured down on the people’ (79)

  • http://www.littlebluealien.com Mike Little

    Great post. Just did a post on “The Resistant Prodigal” on my blog…www.littlebluealien.com. It is where I am…and I need some brothers to walk with. I’d love to connect with some people in the Atlanta area if you know if any.

  • Scott Eaton

    Gunny,

    I agree with you. It is indeed an ironic statement. In both the denominations I have served in (Southern Baptist Convention and Baptist General Conference) I have always felt a bit like a fish out of water. Most guys are doing their planning around the latest Nashville invention (HQ for the SBC) or “Purpose-Driven whatever” or “Willow Creek this and that” when my commitments are to a vibrant missional and reformed Christianity (I like to think biblical).

    At one denom meeting I went to the first question a guy asked me was, “So, are you purpose driven?” I almost barfed on his shoes. In another meeting I was in with church planters the highlight of the meeting was when they shared the name of their church along with their “tag line.” I wonder what the Apostle Paul’s tag line was?

    I don’t think I or any of the guys I enjoy fellowshipping with (including the guys that were the subject of this post) have a corner on anything. I’m just tired of programatic, market-driven, pragmatic, and theologicalliy weak models. I want robust fellowship with men (yes, men) who love Jesus and want him to be the center of their ministries, lives, and fellowship as they seek to minister beyond “the club” (as Reggie McNeal puts it).

    I’m grateful that I think I might have found this kind of fellowship with the guys mentioned in this post.

    SE

  • Rodney McCarty

    One of the greatest blessings God gave me when we moved to Morenci was 2 other pastors who were willing to reach out to me in spite of the last pastor of the church. They helped me through the first couple of years of ministry, and now one of them has moved on. We have reached out to his successor, and are continuing the process. It is a great help and support, knowing that there are others who are praying for you, challenging you, helping you, etc as we minister together – in spite of our different understandings of tertiary issues.

    I hope you guys can develop relationships that will endure throughout eternity.

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