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Many of us expel a collective sigh of frustration at the popular level celebration of Christmas these days. Even many outside of the church have tired of Christmas, not because of the spiritual and religious connotations it bears, but because of the materialistic and consumeristic flavor of the whole thing. This is a fair criticism, but a mistake is made when we conclude that this is what the true American Christmas looks like. It is worldly for sure. And it is western – no doubt. But the American perspective on Christmas is worth noting, even embracing. And it is not exactly about Jesus.
After the American Revolution Christmas actually tanked in popularity. It was viewed as an English custom and it fell out of favor with the new nation. But by 1870 Christmas was made a national holiday. Why the change of heart? The early nineteenth century in America was rough. Severe class distinction created tension, poverty and violence were common. The Christmas season was a time of hard partying among the wealthy and rioting among some of the poor. In this context Christmas began to take a different shape. It didn’t become something more religious, but it did become something more righteous. It really became about loving your neighbor. The change seems to have come about through two authors and a few short stories.
In1819 Washington Irving wrote The Sketchbook of Geoffrey Crayon. The Sketchbook is a collection of short stories and essays. You all at least know of The Legend of Sleepy Hollow, which is one of the short stories that make up this collection. But there are also 5 stories revolving around Christmas. These narratives, depicting one man’s hospitable and gracious interactions with the poor, inviting them into his home during the holidays, began to redeem the American perspective on the holiday. These stories along with Charles Dickens’ famous A Christmas Carol helped to shape the ethos of an American Christmas. Consider the popular holiday films and stories we all know; most of them highlight love to our neighbors, compassion, family, forgiveness, and in general being better people. This is what seems to truly characterize the holidays in America: the dignity in, restoration of and hope for humanity.
I hear from quite a few people that all of this amounts to us pretending to like each other for a few days of the year. That the smiles, acts of kindness, and all the holiday cheer is a superficial facade that is dishonest. But I disagree. I think it is less of a lie and more of the recognition that this is the way it is supposed to be. It is a yearning to be and experience what is right, what is best. It is a recognition of the imago dei, and seeing that, even in literature, is exciting. It resonates with fallen humanity.
Understanding this helps me to better connect with the culture redemptively. I do not feel the need to fight with the world about the true meaning of Christmas. Instead, I can find common ground from which we can talk, really talk, about Jesus. Sure, Christmas is about the best in humanity, the need to be compassionate, restorative, kind, generous, and selfless. The stories we tell at this time of year ought to be held up, because all of this, in one way or another, points to Jesus. Who else more perfectly demonstrates love for the poor, compassion on the broken, the forgiveness of sinners and redemption to all. Who has sacrificed more? Who has given more? Who has loved more? Who has shown us a better picture of all that we celebrate at this time of year? Who else can make the holiday hope of humanity’s restoration a reality?
For Christmas reading:
The Sketchbook of Geoffrey Crayon by Irving
A Christmas Carol by Dickens







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Joe do you think its important, though, to do Christmas differently? Is there a point where we look so much like the world that they really can’t tell the difference?
Josh
“…the word of God is not bound.”
–2 Timothy 2:9
I don’t think people are pretending to be nice, they are just trying harder or maybe actually just thinking about it more. Many charitable organizations would die on the vine without the “giving of the season.” Christmas is a good thing despite the obvious material and idealistic excesses.
By the way, Jerry Falwell is now claiming that last year he “saved” Christmas. For a small donation you can help him do it again this year.
Nice post Joe! One of the best I have read on the subject this year especially since it was filled with logical, well thought out statements instead of emotionally charged statements.
Good question Josh. We should be salt and light for sure. Christmas can be one of the most hectic stressful times of the year. Maybe a better question to ask would be….do they see the peace in my life? Do they see Jesus? Maybe we can all worship Him this year and be different by not allowing ourselves to be caught up in the frenzy. I know, easier said than done.
Thanks guys.
Josh, I don’t think it is important to do any one thing overtly different from the world if that thing is good. Looking different for the sake of looking different is of no value to me (I know this is not what you are suggesting). Yet we do xmas differently in numerous ways. Ultimately we believe it is all about Jesus Christ (he is the perfection behind the stories we tell and read) so for us it is both about worship and work; celebrating him and demonstrating him. So we start with him – when others might start with the American Christmas picture and hopefully find their way to him.
In the end the “holiday” itself carries no real weight with me biblically. Jesus was not born in December. I view the holiday as an aspect of my culture more than an essential part of my faith. Don’t get me wrong, I think the incarnation of God is HUGE to our faith and have been preaching on that for the past few weeks.
But I often sense that the church picks the wrong fight. Christians will fight over a man made holiday without ever helping people connect to Jesus.
For the record I enjoy celebrating xmas in both the church and the world. In both realms I am pointing to the Gospel, but one is a context of worship, and the other a context of proclamation/evangelism. I hope that makes sense.
Joe wrote:But I often sense that the church picks the wrong fight. Christians will fight over a man made holiday without ever helping people connect to Jesus.
That’s the meat of it. Let’s go picket WalMart because they won’t let their employees say Merry Christmas when ‘Merry Christmas’ really carries no weight with it now–if it ever did at all. The punchline is that the world can’t even stand the fake idea of Christmas anymore so we’re fighting for a plastic image anyway.
I love this time of year too in spite of all that and yes that last comment did make a great deal of sense.
Josh
“…the word of God is not bound.”
–2 Timothy 2:9
I love history. Thanks Joe, for a great lesson from our history.
Two songs came to mind as I read your post. One is by John McCutcheon, called “Christmas in the Trenches.” It is based on the true story of WWI veterans who, during the war, and without the permission of their superiors, called a cease fire on Christmas eve. Soldiers from both sides came out onto the battlefield, played games, exchanged gifts and food, and told stories of Christmas back home. It was a little bit of peace in a bad time. There was an attempt later on to have these men tried for treason, and giving aid and comfort to the enemy. Great song.
The other is by Lyle Lovett, and is called “Christmas Morning.” He talks about the lady at the checkout stand, and the people at Christmas time, all exchanging pleasantries, well wishes, etc. “What did they really mean by that? I’m not the fool they think I am.” He is cyncial that they don’t really mean what they say, they’re just saying it. Then he turns to his wife, who is leaving him, and says that she didn’t really mean at their wedding, when she promised to love him no matter what. His point is that for many folks, words are just words, without any true meaning. Wedding vows, and Christmas greetings, are just words. Pretty deep stuff.
Great post. Thanks for sharing.
Good words Joe. And necessary for guys like me who tend to get kinda surly about all the commercialism.
You wrote about the concern “that all of this amounts to us pretending to like each other.”
I think that the shift of focus for a time can actually change our simple feelings toward one another and this then changes the way we act.
Great article. I too have had to fall back on the background of the Christmas holiday in order to be able to enjoy it again. The biggest help for me was when it dawned on me that the “Christmas Holiday” is not the mission of the Church. It serves a glorious evangelistic and teaching purpose but God has not called the Church to promote and save Christmas. This has enabled me to not only enjoy the season but also to embrace it more. It has also helped me to ignore the “war” on Christmas.
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