Though I am a Reformed theologian I make many of my corrective remarks toward those of us in the Reformed tradition. Tom Ascol has been doing the same on the Founders Ministries Blog. In his most recent post he argues, "if you love God supremely, you will love people sincerely." This is something easy to forget when we are puffing out our theological chests in front of the mirror.
An unloving Calvinist should honestly face heaven's evaluation of him. The devastation of such a critique should humble all of us and make us plead with the Lord to work in us deeply by His Spirit so that we might become more and more filled with that love that is so evident in our Lord Jesus.
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